Cynthia I have seen this happen real life too. With a guy for that matter.
The younger brother who is a pastor in Cameroon returned home to look for a wife and start a family. Older brother says over his dead body will his younger brother marry before him. That he allowed one of them to marry bearing many pressures at the time but that history won't repeat itself again.
My people this issue, them talk am tire. Community people come ask the guy sey why I'm never wan marry then. Guy says he never get money to do proper marriage and everyone was like so this is why you want to spoil another's person future. People dey sha.
Last last, the younger brother had to raise cash for him to go and marry his wife o. within a week there were 2 marriages in one family. The issue was really serious then. Fight almost broke out between brothers in one of the meetings. ☹ :sad: