I am a very sociable young man (early thirties) with budding career prospects. I have worked in several organisations within Nigeria with each job having its own peculiarities. However, one thing appears common in my experiences as a worker. I have often found myself drawn to ladies in my immediate sphere of comfort. e.g camp, workplace, church etc.
But the very issue of my workplace has bothered me for quite a while and I am confused as I write this now. I sincerely hope that I can get very good opinions on this matter and likely some personal experiences as well.
Now, I don't know if this stems from the fact that after being confined in one atmosphere for too long it becomes inevitable that youthful lusts would definitely arise (a phenomenon I would like to call the Big Brother Effect) or maybe I am just plainly feeble when it comes to controlling my hormonal surges (i.e. a randy he-goat 😃) or maybe again that due to my "indoor nature" and inability to really interact with people outside the workplace.
I have successfully wooed some of my colleagues in the past and things worked out quite well without affect our respective jobs (mutually kept on a low key) although some other colleagues suspected (working late and all).
I am trying to keep things civil in my new workplace even though I have come incredibly close to faltering. If you see this succubus and hear what she tells me in private, you'll understand.
So my people, have you been involved in office romance before now? Do you think it is something to be encouraged? or is it a Taboo for you? I'll like to hear your thoughts and experiences please.
SUMMARY: I have been skirt chasing in my various places of work. Had really good low-key experiences with some colleagues in the past. Now concerned that this habit may ruin me if it continues. Need counsel!